Hello listeners. This weeks tune was going to be a super downer one, been having some struggley times internally and such, as humans do. But it came out like this instead. It's kinda hopeful, about singleness and the vague idea of the opposite of that. There's a little in there about the neanderthalic views of the blokey bloke also, and the hesitance of single folks to meet a feller because of it, I've heard some ridiculous backward views towards women of late and it gets my goat all riled up like he was a lion inside, from women too, examples of how men see them and bluntly say so. Anyways, there's only one line about that, mostly this is a tune about hesitant hope, cautious interactions. Something like that. The title comes from what a single person hears from happily paired off folks way to often; "when you stop looking, then you'll find someone", that is such an unhelpful and illogical thing to hear, but maybe they're right?
